Friday, February 26, 2010

Jadilah Cermin

Jadilah seperti cermin
yang memantulkan kembali apa yang dipantulkan kepadanya
maksudku, bukan membalas kembali apa yang telah orang lakukan kepada kita
patahkan objektif mereka dengan ketenangan kita
mungkin terlalu sukar untuk memahami ayat ini
contoh simple dan mudah aku bawakan
biasanya kalau orang sakitkan hati kita
mengata kita, mengutuk kita, mengumpat kita atau menfitna kita
objektif utamanya mudah
sengaja untuk menyakitkan hati kita
keputusannya ada dua
1) kalau kita sakit hati dengan perbuatannya, maka objektifnya tercapai dan orang itu akan bersorak kemenangan
2) kalau kita tenang. setenang air di kali. tindakan orang itu langsung tidak membawa apa-apa kesan kepada kita, maka objektifnya gagal dan objektif itu akan kembali pada dirinya.
objektifnya sakitkan hati kita, tetapi bila kita jadi cermin yang boleh relaks dan cool makanya sakit hati itu kembali kepada si pelaku.
mudah bukan ? ya memang mudah untuk berkata-kata tapi untuk menghadapi kesakitan itu....kita punya hati dan perasaan, mana tahan kalau asyik kena hina, sindir, kutuk, kata dan yang sewaktu dengannya itu.

tingkatkan semangat, kentalkan hati. hadapi semuanya dengan senyuman. sesungguhnya senyuman itu mampu meredakan hati yang sedang marah dan sejukkan hati yang sedang panas.
usah ambil peduli apa yang orang kata sebab ORANG TAK PERNAH TAHU APA DAN MENGAPA KITA MELAKUKAN BEGITU sehinggalah dia bertanya sendiri dengan kita sebabnya.


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